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Questions to ask your oncologist
Almost nothing from a first appointment stays in your head — which is why it helps to have the questions written down.
Pick three to five questions, not all of them
An appointment runs ten to twenty minutes, and your doctor has things to tell you too. Tick the ones weighing on you now — the rest will still be here next time.
Understanding what I have
About the treatment you propose
How treatment changes daily life
Between check-ups: who to call, and when
Paperwork, money and travel
If I want to ask someone else
How to use this list at the appointment
How many questions should I ask at one appointment?
Three to five. Five well-chosen questions get unhurried answers; twenty get rushed ones. Save the rest for next time — the list will still be here.
Can I record the conversation with my doctor?
Ask the doctor first — they are entitled to say no. Many agree, especially if you explain why: not to check up on them, but so you can listen again at home to what you could not take in. If they would rather not, ask whoever came with you to write it down.
Can I bring someone with me?
Yes, and it is well worth bringing someone. People who have just been given hard news remember very little of what follows. Someone beside you, writing, is worth more than your memory on that particular day.
What if I do not understand the answer?
Say exactly that. “I didn't follow that — could you put it another way?” is a sentence doctors hear often and answer readily. It is not rude and it does not make you look stupid — otherwise you leave empty-handed.
I forgot to ask something important. What now?
Write the question down while you still remember it and ask at the next check-up. If it cannot wait, call the number the clinic gave you. At that very first appointment, ask who you call between check-ups — it is one of the most useful things you can leave with.
Printable materials
If you would rather have it on paper, download the list as a PDF and print it.
Download PDF listSources consulted
Guides from major cancer organisations, if you want to read further.